How to Make Your Wedding Day Memorable for Your Guests: Fun Ideas from Bella Alder Photo + Film
How to Make Your Wedding Day Memorable for Your Guests: Fun Ideas from Bella Alder Photo + Film
Your wedding day isn’t just about the vows you exchange and the memories you create with your partner—it’s also about giving your guests an experience they’ll never forget. After all, the people you love are the ones who will make your day even more special. And what better way to celebrate your love than by surprising your friends and family with fun, unique touches that’ll keep them talking long after the wedding is over?
At Bella Alder Photo + Film, we’ve had the privilege of capturing countless weddings, and we’ve seen some amazing ways couples have made their big day unforgettable for their guests. From quirky surprises to personalized keepsakes, here are our favorite ways to make your wedding stand out and keep your guests entertained, engaged, and smiling all day long.
1. Unexpected Surprises: Ring Bearer Under the Chair
Everyone knows the ring bearer is a special part of the ceremony, but what if you could make it a little more exciting? Imagine this: you tell your guests that there’s a special surprise waiting for them, and during the ceremony, they’re asked to check under their chairs. What do they find? The ring bearer! Yes, your little ring bearer can make an entrance in a surprising way, and it’ll be one of those moments everyone remembers. Whether it’s a child or an adorable dog, it’s sure to get a big laugh and make for some memorable photos!
At Bella Alder Photo + Film, we love capturing these unexpected moments that bring joy and laughter to your guests. Whether it’s a surprise reveal or a funny twist on a tradition, we’re always ready to capture the moment so it’s immortalized in your wedding album.
Tips:
Have fun with this idea—add a little mystery to the moment by giving guests a clue or a riddle to figure out where the ring bearer is.
Use props or a themed twist—like a scavenger hunt or clues hidden in the programs—to lead guests to the big reveal.
2. Creative Scavenger Hunts
Who says weddings have to be all about formalities? A creative scavenger hunt can keep your guests engaged and entertained throughout the day. Whether it’s an indoor hunt during cocktail hour or an outdoor scavenger hunt between the ceremony and reception, it’s a great way to encourage your guests to explore your venue and have fun. You can hide clues in different spots, give them fun tasks (like taking a selfie with a random guest or finding a specific decoration), or challenge them to find small gifts hidden around the venue.
We love seeing weddings where guests are active participants in the fun! It not only keeps everyone entertained but also creates a playful atmosphere that’s perfect for candid wedding photos. Your photographer (ahem, us!) will be there to capture all the silly, lighthearted moments that make the day even more memorable.
Tips:
Personalize the scavenger hunt by making clues about your relationship—favorite memories, places you’ve traveled, or even inside jokes.
Have small prizes for the winners, such as custom wedding favors or gift cards to your favorite restaurant.
3. Personalized Coloring Books for the Kids (and Adults!)
If you’ve got kids at your wedding, you know keeping them entertained can sometimes be a challenge. But why not turn it into a fun activity for them? Personalized coloring books featuring scenes from your wedding day or funny illustrations about you and your partner can be a hit with the younger crowd. But we’re not saying adults can’t join in the fun! Adults love a good coloring book too, especially if you add a little humor and whimsy to it. You could even include a few “grown-up” coloring pages with quotes or drawings that reflect your personalities.
Not only is this a fun way to keep the little ones busy, but it also gives your guests something to take home as a keepsake that’s as unique as your wedding.
Tips:
Include fun facts about you and your partner in the coloring book so guests can learn a little more about your journey.
Make sure to have plenty of colored pencils or crayons in a designated area for easy access.
4. Interactive Guest Favors: Build Your Own Favors
Give your guests the chance to create their own unique wedding favor! Setting up a station where guests can make or customize their own favors is a creative and interactive way to keep them entertained. Think personalized jars of jam or honey, custom perfume blending stations, or even a DIY station where guests can decorate mini plant pots or design their own wedding mementos. It’s a fun activity that lets guests take something meaningful and personal home with them.
This idea works well during cocktail hour or as part of your reception entertainment. And since each guest gets to personalize their favor, it becomes a great conversation starter throughout the night!
Tips:
Provide a range of options so your guests can get creative and leave with something they’ll treasure.
Consider setting up a “thank you” area with a note about how the favor is a little piece of your love story.
5. Custom Drink Menus and Signature Cocktails
Give your guests a taste of your personality by offering custom cocktails or a personalized drink menu. Whether it’s a signature cocktail that represents you as a couple or a fun twist on classic drinks, adding this personal touch will have your guests talking. Not only is it a great way to showcase your creativity, but it also adds a unique experience to your reception that your guests will remember.
You can even take it a step further and name the drinks after special moments in your relationship—like “The First Date Fizz” or “The Honeymoon Breeze.” It’s a fun way to add another layer to your love story while providing your guests with delicious and creative drinks.
Tips:
Work with your bartender to come up with a unique but easy-to-make drink that can be enjoyed by all your guests.
Add a little touch of flair—think custom drink stirrers, personalized napkins, or fun signage for each cocktail.
6. Unexpected Entertainment: A Surprise Flash Mob
Who doesn’t love a good surprise? Imagine the look on your guests’ faces when they think it’s just another dance, and suddenly—bam!—a surprise flash mob erupts on the dance floor. Whether it’s your bridal party, your family, or even the whole guest list, a well-rehearsed flash mob can be a hilarious and fun way to get everyone on their feet and involved in the celebration.
This is a great way to add some energy to your reception and get everyone laughing. Plus, the photos of the crowd’s surprised faces will be priceless!
Tips:
Keep it a secret! The element of surprise is key to making this moment even more special.
Choose a fun, upbeat song that will get everyone in the mood to dance.
7. Personalized Guestbook Ideas: Something More Interactive
Instead of the traditional guestbook, why not go for something more interactive? You can ask guests to write down advice, memories, or well wishes for you both, but with a fun twist. Think about setting up a Polaroid station where guests can snap a picture of themselves and add it to a scrapbook with their note. Or, you could have guests write notes on Jenga pieces, which will serve as both a game and a keepsake you can cherish for years to come.
Whatever you choose, make sure your guestbook idea speaks to you as a couple and creates a lasting memory.
Tips:
Set up a designated area where guests can easily contribute to your interactive guestbook.
Don’t forget to tell your photographer to capture those moments—there are always great candid shots of guests writing in your guestbook or posing for a picture!
How to Make Your Wedding Uniquely Yours
At Bella Alder Photo + Film, we love helping couples create a wedding day that’s truly one-of-a-kind. From personalized surprises to unique guest interactions, we’re always excited to see how couples infuse their personalities into every detail. These fun and creative ideas are just a starting point for making your wedding day memorable not just for you, but for all the people who come to celebrate with you.
The best part? We’ll be there to capture every moment, so you’ll always have photos and videos to remember how much fun your day was for everyone involved. If you’re ready to make your wedding as memorable as your love story, reach out to us today!